what is forgiveness?
To forgive is to release the negative feeling or resentment or the need to revenge toward a person who did you wrong/harmed you. It is to let go of the hatred and anger within you. forgiveness.Forgiveness is almighty, it is a choice, however trying to forget someone won’t be that easy for doing something wrong, you can’t just wipe them out of your mind.”Forgiveness is a dedication to an individual that he or she has been forgiven, a process of change and a new start. It is very signifi
cant to give a soul another chance, everybody make mistakes. Nobody is perfect. Learning to accept others flaws create a healthy relationships. Forgiving someone takes ability and willingness before you can totally say that you have forgiven a person. It is a process between the soul and mind.”(Hindi ko pinag)-found it in an essay-
what ability does forgiveness give you?
forgiveness gives you the ability to wish them well with the peace your soul
needs to let go.
We all make mistakes”Today I choose life. Every morning when I wake up I can choose joy, happiness, negativity, pain… To feel the freedom that comes from being able to continue to make mistakes and choices – today I choose to feel life, not to deny my humanity but embrace it.”Kevyn Aucoin. We all have those negative people around us.Even in your Frenid group.
“If you live long enough, you’ll make mistakes. But if you learn from them, you’ll be a better person. It’s how you handle adversity, not how it affects you. The main thing is never quit, never quit, never quit.”
when we forgive we have this overwhelming feeling of to take revenge always resides in our heart which can cause bitterness and frustration as a result u could loose a Frenid or the people around you
Ask yourself this before forgiving the person?
“Was what they did to lose my friendship so terrible and was it so bad that I should never forgive them and forget ever being friends with them?” if yes it was so terrible u should not forgive them but if u think u are overreacting about the situation then forgive them, on the other hand if they weren’t that bad and terrible u should talk to them because there could be a misunderstanding between the two of use or u and them
“How much pain do I have regarding the way this person treated me?”My point is if they treating u badly and gave u bad vibes wipe them of-but it won’t be that easy.remember it will just be a matter of time
“Have they negatively impacted your life?” if yes, and they have a negative impact on your life you shouldn’t be with them because u don’t want people thinking u are the bad person and then u regret hanging out with them, being friends with someone who has a negative Impact in your life could ruin your future
“What was life like for this person while growing up?” What wounds did he or she suffer from others that could have made him or her more likely to hurt you? What kinds of extra pressures or stresses were in this person’s life at the time he or she offended you?
forgiving will let your mind feel clear when u have the thought of a person u don’t want to have in your life u won’t.
may u have a beautiful day